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Marriage relationships come in different forms and dimensions. For the purposes of this discussion, we shall categorise them into six broad groups: Flatmates These are couples who live in the same house or apartment or even room but have little in common. The only thing that unites them is that they live in the same house. They hardly talk to each other. Every discussion degenerates into a quarrel or a fight. Therefore, they have chosen not to have anything in common except when absolutely necessary. Discussions are done most times via the phone to reduce the rate of physical interface. Sometimes discussions are done through notes dropped on paper with pen. Even children are used occasionally as communication channels. The marriage has broken down but the couple still cling to it for various reasons. Money mates These are couples held together by money matters. The man or woman may be financially dependent on the other. There are school fees to pay, rent to pay, foodstuff to buy, ...

Traditions are fundamental to families and society at large. People who live together without tradition are more likely to live in disunity and chaos. Every marriage also comes with its tradition irrespective of customs, religion or characteristics. Tradition provides the foundation and strengthens the principles of the agreement. Today, some couples no longer believe in traditions and consider it archaic. Unfortunately, this notion is having negative impact on many marriages and family lives as well as influencing their moral compass too. Tradition is a source of identity Family traditions can bring huge benefits into the home especially where children form part of the setting. It can provide the right values and a source of identity to help them find the right balance in life. Many children adopt their host countries languages and values due to parents’ ignorance regarding traditions and the significance of knowing their own true origin. A family tradition can be as simple as spe...